Tuesday, September 4, 2012

'Cause I Think Everyone Deserves the Chance to Fly!


It seems almost instantaneous for people to assume that a white, Mormon boy from Utah is Republican.  I grew up in a home where conservative ideals were taught and in a Church whose membership is overwhelmingly Republican.  The elections in Utah, at least for the last 20 plus years, has been somewhat of a joke as far as the "two-party" system is concerned.  I give admiration to those who run for office as a non-Republican in Utah, knowing full well that their chances of actually winning are exceedingly remote. 
           My parents have always tried to exemplify whatever the Church teaches, including political neutrality. I remember multiple times on election day asking them who they voted for, and they would never answer.  They refused to let anyone running for office, be they friend or foe, to put an advertisement in their yard on a high-traffic road.  I can only assume their reason for this is that they believe that who a person votes for is private, and since everybody in the area knows that the Erickson family lives at that house, they didn't want to even give the slightest hint of who or what they'd be voting for. 
The Church has had a long history with conservatives. Many teachings of the Church are easily relatable to the conservative view.  I would dare say that in Utah it is the default that if you are a "good" Mormon, you will just vote Republican (did you know that Brigham Young actually declared in Illinois that all Mormons would be Democrats?  Oh, and in order to get statehood the Church leaders actually had to "call" members of the church to be republican [including a very unhappy J. Golden Kimball) to be Republicans so that there would be a two-party system.  My how times have changed!)  Each year at election time Church headquarters issues a letter to each congregation in the United States indicating what a privilege and responsibility we have to study the issues, pray about our decision, and then cast our vote for who or what we feel is the best choice, always reaffirming the official position of the Church as politically neutral.  Individual congregations and especially individual members, however, are not that neutral.  An experience from my life that truly exemplifies the mentality of most Utah Mormons regarding the elections is this: in an effort to boost political activity, the congregation leaders have been allowed to make announcements over the pulpit with regards to caucuses, etc.  One Sunday at Church it was announced as a reminder that the caucus would be held that Wednesday at the Junior High School.  Wouldn't you know it?  It was the Republican caucus that was held at the Junior High School, and the Democratic caucus was held the same night, but in someone's home.  I genuinely believe that the leader who made this announcement literally had no idea that there was another caucus or that anyone in the congregation would even have any interested in going to a Democratic caucus. 
Imagine my surprise when through the cognitive development of my mid- to late-teens, I started to question the political ideals that had been commonplace in my community, embraced at home, and preached by members.  While I had simply defaulted to the Republican party as a pre-teen, I had no idea why - I simply just did what was the norm.  As I started to develop my own ideals and beliefs, they didn't really align that well with the Republican viewpoints. I was confused and concerned because whether right or wrong, there was a strong need to conform felt by pressures from peers, leaders and especially parents.  I decided to give myself some time to more fully establish my own personal beliefs and opinions before establishing myself as a non-conforming individual.
I often tell people that the most difficult aspect of living in Korea as a missionary was how opposite everything was from the American norm.  From the light switches being turned on and off from side-to-side rather than up-and-down, to the sidewalks being made of individual bricks instead of concrete, to literally everything else.  My first day in Korea my trainer and I attended a vocal concert, and I remember thinking to myself, "How sad that these people don't know how to sing.  If I could just teach them correct technique!"  I went through the next few months constantly wondering how an entire country could be doing everything so wrong!  Didn't they know that there was the right way to do things?  Eventually Heavenly Father helped get it through my thick skull that in many cases there isn't a distinct "right" and "wrong".  Does it really matter what direction a light switch is?  They both work the same.  I quickly realized that my ethnocentric mindset of "this isn't the way I do things so it must be wrong," s completely and utterly inappropriate and complete bigotry.  I firmly believe that the Lord made each of us to be different and unique so that we could learn from each other and help each other to progress.  You'll notice that He didn't make us all uniform, or put us on an individual island.  We're supposed to be with each other and learn from each other. 
Thus, Korea not only taught me the importance of respecting every view, even if it is different than your own, but gave me an opportunity to see a different way of living life, running a country, and establishing a unique culture.  The emphasis they have on education, family and the community is amazing.  When one considers the situation in which the Korean nation found themselves in the mid-1950s after nearly a half a decade of war and enemy-occupation, the entire country was essentially leveled and in rubble.  Now 60 years later, they are a thriving, successful country.  Their priorities and work ethic are amazing and we would do well to adjust some of our priorities to better mirror theirs if we want to have similar results.  Though some would argue that health care in Korea is not at the level of American health care, I was able to experience the benefits of so-called "socialized" health care.  Even though I wasn't a citizen, made no money while in Korea and thus I paid no taxes, by virtue of being a human being in their country I was given the same medical attention for the same low fee as anyone else.  Again, their sense of community and taking care of everyone, regardless of financial situation, was amazing to me. 
           Through these and many other similar experiences, I came back to the United States a changed person.  I found that my experiences in Korea had only solidified my earlier Democratic leanings.  Yet, back in Utah at the mecca of Mormondom I found little tolerance for opposing political views from the community, from peers, and even (especially) from family.  So, I continued with the political neutrality promoted by the Church - keeping my own ideals to myself and respecting the views of others.
In early 2012 it became apparent that I would have somewhat of a dilemma at election time.  Mitt Romney was likely to become the Republican candidate for President.  Mitt Romney is a member of the LDS Church but has a different political viewpoint from my own.  I have been grateful for the amount of time I have had to deeply ponder about the issue of who to vote for.  Do I vote for a man whose religious ideologies are in exact parallel with mine, but whose political agenda varies from my own; or do I vote for a man who has made important changes and that I agree with about 85% of the time on major issues?  As I look at Mitt Romney I can't help but feel an affiliation with him.  We both are BYU graduates, we both go to the same Church on Sunday, have the same priorities with regards to family, education and work ethic.  Even seeing his wife in a modest dress is another affirmation that he and I are more alike than not.  The reason for this is because, in my opinion, active members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are more likely to be devout simply because the standards and beliefs of the Church are very firm and if you believe in the teachings of the Church, you also believe that activity and devotion to the Church are part of the deal.  This isn't to say that members of other religious affiliations are entirely void of such dedication and devotion, but with the standards of the Church being so high, you are either in or you are out, there isn't much middle ground.  So, again, Mitt Romney is obviously "in", and I have made the decision to be "in" as well. 
           My wife and I have had rousing discussions about this issue.  I am grateful, again, to have had enough time to formulate what I feel is the best course of action for me. I have come to the realization that nobody should vote for a candidate solely on the basis of religion.  My decisions of who to vote for in the past has been partially affected by the candidate's religious viewpoints, but not entirely based on that one factor.  Thus, in this election, my decision should not be based solely on the basis of "Mormon vs. Non-Mormon".  Rather, I look at their political platform and agenda.  What I find is that I am somewhat divided.  I have about five things that are extremely important to me.  Mitt Romney's agenda is in line with two of them but opposed to the other three, and Barack Obama's agenda is in line with the other three but opposed to the other two.  So, what's a Dan to do?  Keep my eyes and ears open until election day, and then make the best choice with whoever my political agenda best coincides with. 
Interestingly enough, I have a replica of the situation at the State level.  Last week's primaries put Jeff Flake (R) against Rich Carmona (D) for Senate.  Jeff Flake is another devout Mormon.  In this case, fortunately, the decision is quite easier.  Rich Carmona has been an Independent throughout his career until this year.  Therefore, my occasional conservative views mixed with a lot of liberal ideas are nearly entirely espoused by one candidate.  How fortunate?!  I don't think that happens too often.  I think more often than not, each of us, regardless of political orientation, religion, ethnicity, or anything else - we are all unique individuals with unique ideologies.  It is very rare to have someone whose ideology is very similar wanting to represent you and be your voice in government. 
Now, does this mean that I hate Jeff Flake, or disavow Mitt Romney?  Nope.  I respect them both, and wish them both well.  If either or both are elected will I scream and shout?  Probably not - I hope that I can be one to promote a culture where we support our leaders, even if we don't always agree with them (and if we don't agree with them, then the next election we are welcome to replace them!)  Do I think Mitt Romney is a bad Mormon because he and I see the political world differently?  Absolutely not.  Would I shake his hand if I saw him at Church?  Yep - already did (although this was two years ago when he didn't have secret service agents around him).  Will I vote for Mitt Romney this election?  That remains to be determined based on the next two months.  If the election were today my vote would be for the incumbent.  Do I feel that makes me a bad Mormon?  Absolutely not.  Up until now have I remained silent about my political ideology for fear of "rocking the boat"?  Yes.  But now more than ever I feel it is important for people like me to stand up and show the world that you can be a Mormon in good faith and not vote for Mitt Romney just because he is also a Mormon.  Will I possibly lose popularity, make friends/family members upset, or lose Facebook friends?  Probably - but if such is the case, then those people aren't the type of people I want to be close with.  Do I hate people who are supporting Mitt Romney (or any other candidate I don’t agree with)?  No, I don’t.   We should all be tolerant and respectful of each other and individual ideologies, without trying to shove our own down the other's throat.  Do I feel a sense of excitement that for the first time a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the Presidential nominee of a major political party?  Absolutely!  Hopefully this is the first of many!
I've been thinking about writing this blog post for some time now, and even now have some hesitancy posting it (it's been written for two days without posting).  My motivation for writing this is manifold.  I feel that most people I know have taken the opportunity to spread their political ideology, and I have been the silent observer.  It's my turn to say something, and I'm taking my turn.  Further, I think it is important to help promote the truth about being a Mormon in 2012.  The Church really does believe in political neutrality, stating that "Principles compatible with the gospel may be found in various political parties".  Yes, Mitt Romney is a member of the LDS Church - but does that mean that all Mormons will or should vote for him?  No.  Also, a huge portion of the reason for writing this post is for me.  I know what I think, believe and feel about most things, and I am developing the confidence to share those ideologies in an appropriate manner.  I shouldn't be ashamed of them just because they are different from what is expected, or different from the established norm.  I am a human being, a child of a loving God, and I should respect myself as a human being enough to have confidence in what I believe (popular or not).  I will continue to do my best to not make it overbearing, rude, condescending or in any other way inappropriate.  But, here I am, making a huge step and actually posting this and putting out my very personal views and opinions for anybody to see, whether or not anybody does see it, or whether or not anybody cares. 
            In the chance that this helped someone else have the confidence to share their voice, that is great (even if our voices have differing views), that’s great.  If not, at the very least, I found the confidence to share mine.

The End.

P.S. Here's a copy of a First Presidency letter regarding elections and political neutrality (found at http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/first-presidency-issues-letter-on-political-participation):
Political Participation, Voting, and the Political Neutrality of the Church

As citizens we have the privilege and duty of electing office holders and influencing public policy. Participation in the political process affects our communities and nation today and in the future.

Latter-day Saints as citizens are to seek out and then uphold leaders who will act with integrity and are wise, good, and honest. Principles compatible with the gospel may be found in various political parties.

Therefore, in this election year, we urge you to register to vote, to study the issues and candidates carefully and prayerfully, and then to vote for and actively support those you believe will most nearly carry out your ideas of good government.

The Church affirms its neutrality regarding political parties, platforms, and candidates. The Church also affirms its constitutional right of expression on political and social issues.

Sincerely yours,


Thomas S. Monson
Henry B. Eyring
Dieter F. Uchtdorf
The First Presidency

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Which one, which one?!


One of my all-time favorite movies is the Emperor's New Groove. Of all the quotes from this amazing movie is the "Which one, which one?" That Yzma melodically chants to Cusco and Pacha as they are looking for the right potion. I used this quote every day in the MTC as a missionary when trying to decide which compartment on the conveyor belt to put my tray on, little realizing that two years later I would be a teacher there and wind up doing the same thing when I ate there.

When my Debbiecita came into my life I never knew that the media would cause me to do the same thing. Try it yourself - try to identify which one is Idina Menzel (Tony winner and Broadway Star), Kajol (the most famous Bollywood actress), Lea Michelle (Glee superstar), Priyanka Chopra (Miss World 2000), and Debbie?!


Sunday, November 14, 2010

La Misma Luna

Last night Debbie and I attended the BYU International Cinema. The feature presentation was La Misma Luna, or in English Under the Same Moon. It was fabulous! At the risk of being too personal - it was the first movie that I watched with Debbie that I cried at. Yeah, you can call me a baby - but it really just struck my heart.
It is a story about a family from Mexico, the Mom has made it across the border and is working two jobs in L.A. to support her son in Mexico. She sends him money and is trying to save up money so that she can hire another lawyer (the first one robbed her) to try to get her son across the border. The entire movie was phenomenal. I don't want to give away the plot because I really would suggest anybody to watch this movie.
One of the main reasons that I think this movie in particular touched my heart is because of my new life. When I married my Deboritas in April 2009 I entered into a new family. La Familia Packer. A HUGE part of this family is my mamitas. She is from Peru and is so wonderful! Even though she has been in the United States for over 30 years she is still very VERY Hispanic, and it is so cute - I love it. I could tell stories for hours about her and how much I love her, but as it relates to this post - the main thing that I have experienced from her is the love a Hispanic mother has for her children. Even though I was born to another woman, by marrying her daughter I became her son. It has been one of the best experiences of my life.
So, as I was watching this movie I was able to understand it at a different level. I know how much Hispanic moms live, breathe and die for their children. I understand how much their heart is wrapped up in only the lives of their children. I understand and know this because I have a Hispanic mother, and I love her.
Another huge reason why this movie was so touching was because of the recent development of immigration laws and reforms around the country and especially those in Arizona and Utah. The proposition in Arizona has huge effects on me and my family because that is where we are hoping and planning to spend the rest of our life - and my family is Hispanic. My wife has already been the victim of racial profiling in many venues - the airport, the cruise, the Temple, at Church and basically anywhere she goes here in Utah; and with this law she and her family will be subjected to even more intense racial profiling. So, despite the fact that I am as pasty white as they come, this immigration law affects me very intimately and very personally.
I've been interested to see what the Church says/thinks about this immigration issue, and up until this week they have been pretty silent. The only thing that I knew is that both here in the States and in Korea when investigators wanted to be baptized they could, even if they weren't legally here. But, the Church finally came out and in a round-about way gave us some good instruction for what we should do. On November 11, 2010 the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints officially supported the Utah Compact. I include the full text of the Utah Compact so that you can see exactly what it is.

A declaration of five principles to guide Utah's immigration discussion

FEDERAL SOLUTIONS: Immigration is a federal policy issue between the U.S. government and other countries — not Utah and other countries. We urge Utah's congressional delegation, and others, to lead efforts to strengthen federal laws and protect our national borders. We urge state leaders to adopt reasonable policies addressing immigrants in Utah.

LAW ENFORCEMENT: We respect the rule of law and support law enforcement's professional judgment and discretion. Local law enforcement resources should focus on criminal activities, not civil violations of federal code.

FAMILIES: Strong families are the foundation of successful communities. We oppose policies that unnecessarily separate families. We champion policies that support families and improve the health, education and well-being of all Utah children.

ECONOMY: Utah is best served by a free-market philosophy that maximizes individual freedom and opportunity. We acknowledge the economic role immigrants play as workers and taxpayers. Utah's immigration policies must reaffirm our global reputation as a welcoming and business-friendly state.

A FREE SOCIETY: Immigrants are integrated into communities across Utah. We must adopt a humane approach to this reality, reflecting our unique culture, history and spirit of inclusion. The way we treat immigrants will say more about us as a free society and less about our immigrant neighbors. Utah should always be a place that welcomes people of goodwill.

The LDS Church additionally stated:

As a worldwide church dealing with many complex issues across the globe, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints promotes broad, foundational principles that have worldwide application. The Church regards the declaration of the Utah Compact as a responsible approach to the urgent challenge of immigration reform. It is consistent with important principles for which we stand:

  • We follow Jesus Christ by loving our neighbors. The Savior taught that the meaning of “neighbor” includes all of God’s children, in all places, at all times.
  • We recognize an ever-present need to strengthen families. Families are meant to be together. Forced separation of working parents from their children weakens families and damages society.
  • We acknowledge that every nation has the right to enforce its laws and secure its borders. All persons subject to a nation’s laws are accountable for their acts in relation to them.

Public officials should create and administer laws that reflect the best of our aspirations as a just and caring society. Such laws will properly balance love for neighbors, family cohesion, and the observance of just and enforceable laws.

Essentially this Utah Compact as well as the Church's standpoint reaffirm what Christ taught: that our efforts in life should be centered on becoming more Christlike in our endeavor to achieve Celestial Glory, build strong families in order for them to achieve salvation, and to help and love all others along the way.

Any time a person - despite well-meaning intentions, or no intentions at all - degrades, looks down on, or thinks themselves better than another human being we are not fulfilling our purpose here in life. How does that help anyone come closer to Christ? I strongly promote genuine Christian love and behavior from and for all people, regardless of race/ethnicity, culture, sex, religion or beliefs. We have a very clear standard for us, and that is Christ Himself. Was His Atonement only applicable to certain people? Did He forbid anyone from coming to Him? Then why should we?

Unfortunately, sometimes people don't realize that certain opinions, beliefs and actions are not in harmony with Christian values, and they may not even realize that they are belittling, demeaning and looking down on other people. I know that I personally have struggled with this, and more than likely will continue to. I am so grateful, though, for a loving Heavenly Father who loves me enough to put me through experiences where He taught me this principle, and I promise Him that I will endeavor to be as Christlike as I can, to love others without reserve, and to help all others come unto Christ.

On the issue of immigration, I agree with the Church and with the Utah Compact that governments have the right and obligations to create laws and govern their borders. "We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers and magistrates in obeying, honoring and sustaining the law." However, I specifically agree with both the Church and the Utah Compact that these laws MUST be clearly thought out and have a spirit of love for everyone. One very unfortunate side-effect of these immigration laws is that it quickly leads to racial-profiling which leads to unkind and un-Christlike thoughts regarding people of other ethnicities. Furthermore, I would entice us all to remember our place in our loving Heavenly Father's eyes. We are all His children, created by Him and beloved by Him. Our gender, the color of our skin, where we were born, etc. have absolutely no affect on His love for us. I am looking forward to spending eternity in the presence of many of His beloved children who look different, think different, and were born in different places of this earth. May I also remind us that for many of us who are affiliated with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints that all of us are immigrants? Most of our families have immigrated since the 1800s from all around the world - especially Europe and Canada. Yet, even those whose ancestry goes further in history are immigrants as well - even those from Central and South America we know, through the Book of Mormon, were actually brought here by revelation around 500 b.c. and are primarily the descendants of Father Lehi, one of the most inspired Prophets of history. I find this fact very useful to remember when thinking of how to treat and view others of different nationalities.

My purpose in posting this blog is not to be mean-spirited, or hurtful in any way. In all honesty I just decided it was time to blog again, and this issue is the one that is at the forefront of my mind. If you have taken offense, I am sorry - that wasn't my intent. The majority of my intent was mainly to express my feelings, and hopefully give some "food for thought". Especially considering the fact that my blog has had 68 views in the last year and a half (and most of them by myself to see if it was still running) you can be certain that my motives are not to cause turmoil and stress. May I close with the prayer of St. Francis of Agassi who puts my life's purpose very beautifully:
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;

where there is injury,pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seek

to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;

it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen



Sunday, October 18, 2009

And her name should be . . .



So, since my wife's blog just a few moments ago gave me a pseudo name, allow me to do her the same honor.
She deserves such a wonderful name, like Feena, the Brown Warrior. But somehow, I can forsee in the future loathing blogging if I always have to include such a long name, despite how well it fits.
She frequently wears black pointy high heels with a black wrap-dress, and says that she is the "Black Witch". But, she's brown!
What to call such a special girl? Originally, I thought that since her name for me is e-Spanish, she should get a beautiful name from the land of the morning calm: 이삼순 (Lee, Sam-soon) It was either going to be Sam-soon, or Ji-eun, and since there are so many Ji-euns in the world, and only one Sam-soon in existence, I think it only fair that the most unique and special rose of a wife of mine should get a unique name.
Now, I will say that a name like "Fabalicious" did come to mind, but that is just too out there for my tastes.
It needs to be special, yet simple. Crazy, yet tasteful. Delicious, yet perky. That's it! I've got it: Febbie; Febbie the Freaking Fabulous!!!
Here's to you Febbie!
With MUCH Love,
Your Husbandcito

Friday, September 18, 2009

WALL*E

Well, tonight my wife and I watched WALL*E for the first time. I actually had some really big reservations about watching WALL*E, and purposely have put off watching it, actually. I really didn't embrace the idea of two robots falling in love and no talking going on for at least the first half hour. However, I was pleasantly surprised that despite the fact that their only form of verbal communication consisted of less than 5 words, the plot was still okay. AND - I was still able to learn valuable life lessons (such as Virtual world having huge possibility of taking over real world - the choice is mine), and how we need to come in contact (as my crazy Biology teacher says) with our long-lost "Sense of Wonder."
Was WALL*E my favorite? Nope.
Did I get emotional over it? Nope.
Did I enjoy watching it? for the most part.
Did I think it taught a good message? sure (but even President Eyring's dad said that he could turn any talk into a information-full sermon by thinking in his head about what they were really trying to get across.)
Did I think that my wife maybe got just a titch TOO emotionally involved? for the sake of my safety and "points" I am not at liberty to discuss it.

However, I found an interesting opinion of some random nobody on the internet the other day ranking PIXAR movies. I think they're wrong about a lot of them. MY personal feeling is that UP is by far in the top three, along with the Toy Story(s) and probably Monsters, Inc. WALL*E taught some good lessons, but as far as Danenjoyedit points: on the bottom shelf of PIXAR's best.

But that's just me.

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

In the Beginning. . .


I've never blogged before - or even really thought about it. My favorite quote about blogs goes something like this "Never before has so much been written about so much that so few eyes will see, and so few of the owners of those eyes actually caring." BUT - to be fair, I decided I would give it a try. And if anyone actually cares about what I'm writing - good for you! I hope that it makes you even a little bit happy - because life is too short to be unhappy. I make no promises about the frequency or quality of these blogs. Just know in advance that I love to be happy and to laugh. Adventure screams my name and in the midst of answering I appear to many to be crazy. But, if you are okay with those kinds of things, then I think you will greatly enjoy "And it came to pass. . . ."